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Thursday, May 23, 2013

Amsterdam - A City of Surprises

By Lucy Felthouse

One of the infamous canals - there really are lots!
... and not necessarily the ones you think I mean. I just got back from Amsterdam where I spent a few days exploring and hoping for lots of inspiration for one of my erotic series. One such surprise is that I wasn't as inspired as I thought I would be. It's a city known mainly for its Red Light District - despite the fact there's lots more to it - and I figured I would get lots of ideas from that alone. I admit I'm slightly disappointed (only by the lack of inspiration - the trip itself was wonderful!).

The Condomerie - surrounded by giggling
idiots. Yes, I was one of them.
I didn't see all of the Red Light District, it goes on for quite a way, and thousands of football fans made us beat a hasty retreat before it all got rather nasty. We went back the following day but it was early and not much was happening. Despite that, there were women in the windows, there were an abundance of sex toys in the other windows, and it really wasn't very erotic. I can only comment on what I saw with my own eyes, of course, and this is just my opinion, but I just didn't think it was sexy or seductive. I thought it was pretty damn trashy. I haven't got anything against the idea of prostitution, especially in that kind of environment where it's much safer and heavily policed, but I tried to see it through a man's eyes and what might be hot about it - and failed miserably. If I was a single man desperate to be with someone, I still wouldn't go in there. I may as well go next door and buy a Fleshlight.

Wonkiness is apparent here, and I hadn't
even walked past a "coffeeshop" yet
Otherwise, it's a very beautiful city with lots of wonky buildings (and no, I didn't touch any drugs, though I'm sure I got a fair whack of passive highs as I walked past the many "coffeeshops") and a pretty laid back atmosphere - none of the rushing around you see in London, or the massively over-crowded shopping streets. There are bikes literally everywhere and crossing the road is an incredibly dangerous thing to do. It's much smaller, I believe, than London, Paris or Rome, but I still found it quite difficult to navigate - and I'm pretty nifty with a map. Having said that, though, we didn't get lost, so it's all good :)

We visited lots of museums, churches and of course, went on a canal cruise, and we didn't manage to do everything on our itinerary, so it just shows there's tons more there than drugs and prostitution, and although I haven't got a bazillion ideas running through my head, I've definitely got enough to be going on with for my erotic series, and I'm sure other things will probably come to me at a later date, as they so often do.

I hope so, anyway. I do love penning different locations.

*****

Lucy Felthouse is a very busy woman! She writes erotica and erotic romance in a variety of subgenres and pairings, and has over seventy publications to her name, with many more in the pipeline. These include Best Bondage Erotica 2012 and 2013, and Best Women's Erotica 2013. Another string to her bow is editing, and she has edited and co-edited a number of anthologies. She owns Erotica For All, and is book editor for Cliterati. Find out more at http://www.lucyfelthouse.co.uk. Join her on Facebook and Twitter, and subscribe to her newsletter at: http://eepurl.com/gMQb9

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

The Post That Wasn't

By Lisabet Sarai

Okay, so I was supposed to post today, not a week ago as I did, stomping on poor Garce's post. These things happen. I was trying to get the post pre-scheduled, you know, getting on top of my To-Do List ... Anyway, if you haven't read that post, entitled Stories We Tell Ourselves, I invite you to do so.

Meanwhile, today's my official posting day and of course I can't keep quiet...!

I just want to remind all readers that if you enjoy the discussions on this blog, you might want to join the ERWA email discussion lists. On the Writers list, we share our thoughts and information about all sorts of writing-related topics. Recent threads have included: self-editing - when to stop; reality versus fantasy in the portrayal of BDSM; how to write convincing dialogue; first versus third person POV; how to motivate yourself to finish what you start.

The Storytime list is our on-line critique group. Members post works in progress as well as comments and suggestions on other authors' submissions. It's very civil and strongly moderated - even the tenderest ego will not be shattered, yet at the same time you can get some fabulous insights into how to improve your writing. As an added benefit, our esteemed editors select the best stories, flashers and poems each month and invite the authors to publish them in the ERWA Gallery.

The Parlor list is just for fun - chit-chat with other ERWA members about anything under the sun. (However, posts do tend to stray toward sexual topics pretty frequently!)

To join any or all of these lists, follow the instructions here.

Let me finish up by posting one of my own favorite flashers - from the old days when flashers were strictly 100 words. I especially like it because it's about writing.

Groupie
By Lisabet Sarai
Copyright 2001

"I like your poems," she said, leaning closer across the cafe table, so that he could see the shadowed hollow between her breasts where the candlelight did not reach. "I like your images. I can taste them, roll them around on my tongue. They catch in my throat like unshed tears."

He sipped his chianti, adjusted his glasses, pretended to ignore her stealthy hand on his thigh. Her fingers crept over his chinos, aiming for the swelling at his root. He thought of rejection slips, the dirty laundry scattered round his flat, the bills waiting to be paid. Useless. None of these mundane devices could prevail against her blonde adoration.

He stood like iron. Her triumphant hand claimed him. "I like the way  you can write 'fuck'," she said, "and make it into a poem."


Monday, May 20, 2013

Call for Submissions

Big Tools: Blue Collar Gay Erotica
Editor: Shane Allison
Publisher: Cleis Press
Deadline: September 1, 2013
Payment: $50/2 copies of the anthology on publication. Contract is for one-time rights.

Editor Shane Allison is looking for gay erotic stories on the theme of hot, blue collar men. Think of sweaty road workers, muscle-bound roofers, raunchy welders and beefy carpenter butt.   The book will feature a wide range of scenarios, settings, periods, writing styles, ages, and races. I'm mainly looking for one of a kind fiction or non-fiction stories centered around those men we often take for granted. This anthology will be in homage to them. I'm looking for your hottest sex, the kinkiest, the most unexpected. Threesomes, foursomes or moresomes are fine. Grab your pen, saddle up to that lap top or typewriter, and get down deep and dirty with this theme.

Submission details at:
http://erotica-readers.com/ERA/AR/Big_Tools.htm

Saturday, May 18, 2013

Erotic Inspirations: A Very Personal Reading List

Recently a novice writer asked me to recommend some of my favorite erotic authors and books. I realized that I could answer this question quickly with a list of editors and publishers I love because they appreciate me, but part of me pushed back against a “commercial” answer, because, well, part of me is sick of anything that smacks of self-promotion. Another part (I am, apparently, a woman of many parts) was reluctant to claim authority on the subject because tastes in erotica are especially personal. Of course, the evaluation of any writing involves personal taste, but let’s be honest—the “best” erotica stimulates our unique turn-ons. 

Then I got to musing how very intimate it would be to share my favorite hot-button stories with a lover, putting together a personal anthology of tales that sink deep into my flesh and my imagination. In other words, the stories that I could read again and again (and you all know what that means). I’d be even more interested in reading my lover’s special anthology. Communicating through stories would, I think, convey a flavor and sensibility that direct description—I like being bossed around by billionaire CEO’s, I’d love to be tickled all over with feathers, etc.—can never fully capture.

This project felt a bit too personal to share with my erotica-writing friend, but then it also hit me that as an erotica writer, I share my sensibility with my readers with every word I write. So much for privacy.

However, I suspect the question also invited me to suggest works of erotica that would inspire good writing as much as erotic response. I’m not in a position to endorse the erotica canon blindly. Henry Miller and The Story of O didn’t really do it for me. Fanny Hill was interesting historically, but the style is of a different age. Anais Nin is the mother of modern erotica, and a lovely, poetic writer, but she needs no recommendation--we all find her on our own.

Yet, in thinking back, there was a list of books I read when I first started writing that made me say, “Yes, I want to try this, too!” Many were published in the mid-to-late 1990’s, which is when I began writing myself. Thus again, there is an inescapably personal element to my list. How can it be otherwise? Indeed, it could well be that one’s formative erotic stories rely more on timing than quality. I was ready to be awakened to erotica, and certain stories found their way to me that might be far less memorable now.

All that said, I eventually did have myself a good time remembering the stories that turned me on as a writer sixteen long years ago. I still stand by these recommendations as a writer and a reader. They made me what I am today.

Memoirs of a Beatnik by Diane DiPrima

A renowned Beat poet, DiPrima originally wrote this erotic novel in the late 1960’s for the money. In spite of the title, it was “based” on her own experiences rather than a true memoir. She proudly admits in the afterword that she made most of it up. Fortunately, she, like Anais Nin, was so talented, she couldn’t write badly, even for such a practical purpose. My very favorite part is chapters one and two, “February” and "February--continued" which describe her first intimate encounter in the West Village with a sexy revolutionary named Ivan. Is there anything sexier than a gorgeous Bohemian who's great in bed? This scene made me realize that erotica can be smart, beautifully written, romantic, edgy and hot all at the same time. Many of the later chapters do indeed read as if they were written for money, but that first chapter is seared into my imagination. I didn’t only want to write it, I wanted to live it.

The Mammoth Book of International Erotica, edited by Maxim Jakubowski

This volume was reissued in 2006 with some changes in the table of contents, but the book I fell in love with was the 1996 version. Many famous names are included in the table of contents, but the two stories that inspired me to write were “Fourth Date, First Fuck” by Dion Farquhar and “Watching” by J.P. Kansas. Both are realistic and involved emotionally intimate relationships, which was a new thing for me to see in “dirty” fiction. “Fourth Date” describes a delicious mutual seduction between two people who’ve been hot for each other for a while—again a scene I wouldn’t mind living out in real life. In “Watching,” a husband comes home early from work to find his wife masturbating to one of his porn videos. What really delighted and intrigued me is that we get both sides of the story, first his, then hers. The humor and the heat are irresistible.

Actually, I would recommend any of Maxim’s Mammoth erotica anthologies to a new writer, because they provide a varied menu of possibilities in sexual and literary expression. Some will touch you more than others, but they’re all well-written. Maxim also appreciates longer stories, which is not so common in our Internet age.

Best American Erotica 1997

This single volume remains my favorite in the long and impressive “Best Erotica” series, possibly because it was published at the right time, but maybe just because the stories are great. I know, I’m on the record as disliking reviews that merely mention favorite stories, but I warned you up front this was very personal! Mark Stuertz’ “Lunch” totally blew my mind because the author juxtaposed a "Twin Peaks"-esque secret lunch club performance--complete with a dwarf and a languid beauty infusing a spinach salad with her womanly essence--with an exploration of the sexual sensibility of "Drew," the man who recommended this unusual meal to the less-worldly narrator. For me it was the first time a character was portrayed so powerfully through his sexual history and tastes. It was a little creepy and very sexy at the same time. Would I want to be with this "Drew"? (Sure, what the hell!)

By contrast, “She Gets Her Ass Fucked Good” by Rose White and Eric Albert is, in spite of the raw title, a sweet love story told in dialogue. I love dialogue in erotic fiction. I love the way a focus on dialogue allows the reader to add in all the good parts. I’m tempted to go write a story right now that is only dialogue. Maybe I will. Thanks to White and Albert for teaching me its power.

Erotica: An Illustrated Anthology of Sexual Art and Literature, volumes 1, 2 and 3 edited by Charlotte Hill and William Wallace (Carroll and Graf, 1992, 1993, 1996).

I discovered these beautifully illustrated anthologies of erotic excerpts at Good Vibrations way back when there was just one store on Valencia Street in San Francisco—another well-timed discovery for a budding erotica writer. I started with the second volume and quickly had to stock up on the others. The editors chose selections from a wide variety of classic erotic tales, presenting a nice overview of the scribblings of the erotic pen. The wide historical range of the illustrations also confirms that humanity has been fascinated and inspired by sexuality since, like, forever. They say women aren’t as fond of visual erotica, but these books prove this is not the case for yours truly when the images are artistically conceived, but no less explicit. Hill and Wallace put out a new volume in 2011, The Collected Erotica: An Illustrated Celebration of Human Sexuality Through the Ages. I’m figuring it can’t be all that different from the content in the three volumes I have, but it might be a good introduction and easier to order new at a reasonable price.

Now please let me to ask you--which books first inspired your erotica writing adventure?

Donna George Storey is the author of Amorous Woman (recently released as an ebook) and a new collection of short stories, Mammoth Presents the Best of Donna George Storey. Learn more about her work at www.DonnaGeorgeStorey.com or http://www.facebook.com/DGSauthor

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Call for Submissions

Homeboys: Urban Gay Erotica
Editor: Shane Allison
Publisher: Cleis Press
Deadline: September 1, 2013
Payment: $50/2 copies of the anthology on publication. Contract is for one-time rights.

Editor Shane Allison is looking for gay erotic stories on the theme of those wild and fancy-free outlaws of the streets. What happens when two horny members from L.A.'s notorious Crips and Bloods are involved in a secret love affair? Or when a few members of the Greasers and the Socs meet for hot sex in an abandoned freight train.  Give me homo thugs, drug runners, mischievous miscriants,  dirty cops, prison gay gang bangs and big dick warriors.  The book will feature a wide range of scenarios, settings,  periods, writing styles, ages, and races. I'm mainly looking for one of a kind fiction or non-fiction stories focused around those troublesome homeboys who own and run the streets.

Submission details at:
http://erotica-readers.com/ERA/AR/Homeboys.htm

Call for Submissions

Men of the Manor: Erotic Encounters between Upstairs Lords & Downstairs Lads
Editor: Rob Rosen
Publisher: Cleis Press
Deadline: August 1st, 2013 (Earlier would be greatly appreciated!)
Payment: $50.00 USD and 2 copies of the book upon publication.

Give me your hottest stories of romance and sex between wealthy aristocrats and hard-working estate staff, all with a pre-World War 1 backdrop, including the fashion and art and the latest inventions of the day. War is years way, the estates are huge and sprawling, the fashionably elite have too much time on their hands, while the toiling underclass are always on the lookout for a means to a brighter future -- no matter whose bed they end up in during the night. Think Downton Abbey and Upstairs, Downstairs, but with enough sex to make the town vicar blush.

Submission details at:
http://erotica-readers.com/ERA/AR/Men_of_the_Manor.htm