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Sunday, September 28, 2014

Do Authors Need A Support System?

Elizabeth Black writes in a wide variety of genres including erotica, erotic romance, and dark fiction. She lives on the Massachusetts coast with her husband, son, and four cats. Visit her web site, her Facebook page, and her Amazon Author Page.

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Writing is essentially a solitary activity. We are alone with our thoughts. We research in solitude. The act of writing itself is done alone, even if you collaborate with another author. Writing is also a very stressful field to get into. Competition is fierce and rejections are a part of the game. Some days a writer is on top of the world, and other days that same writer is ready to toss the entire business across the room onto a wall and watch it go "splat".

There is a glut of erotica and romance out there now with everyone and her aunt self-publishing. Kindle Unlimited also figures into the problems since writers aren't paid unless the reader reads a certain percentage of a book. Because of the glut, there are piss poor books out there with the cream of the crop. The problem is finding the cream. Many writers have seen their earnings drop over the past few quarters.

Since writing is such a difficult field to get wrapped up in, would it help to have a support system so that you don't end up thinking writing is nothing more than a soul-crushing fool's errand? I think having a support system does help a great deal, and it's vitally necessary to keep a writer plunging forward.

I'm fortunate in that I have a very supportive family. My husband is my biggest cheerleader and my 25 year old son also supports me, although he is much quieter about it. He told his friends I write "naughty words" with a smile on his face. While I got my start writing erotic fiction, I also write dark fiction, horror, and fantasy. My family supports me all the way.

My parents and sister? Not so much. They really aren't interested. They never ask how my writing is going. That hurts quite a bit but I've accepted it. However, if I didn't have my husband and son's support, I don't know what I'd do. I'd probably have given up a long time ago.

I also get support from the writers group I'm in. We meet every Wednesday. Not only do I get critiques, I get friendship and moral support. That all of us have writing in common is icing on the cake. I also have friends who support me. They're online because we live far from each other, but the support is there.

I think writers need a support system. I can vent about the business whenever I like and not told all I do is whine. I can write some pretty smutty stuff without my support system going all Church Lady on me. I can also write some pretty gruesome stuff without anyone clutching pearls and dropping in a dead faint. The drive to write is so strong I pick myself up after a pitfall, with the help of others.


What about you? Do you have a support system and how well does it function for you?

7 comments:

  1. All of you at ERWA are my support group!

    Thanks, Elizabeth, and everyone!

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  2. ERWA is a great support group. I agree. You're very welcome, Lisabet.

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  3. "Because of the glut, there are piss poor books out there with the cream of the crop. The problem is finding the cream." Exactly. Glut, crap, lowest common denominator thinking ... and it's getting worse by the minute, and I'm thinking it's going to implode sooner rather than later. The "adult tag" thing certainly isn't helping. And if you're newer and trying something a little "different," well, you can pretty much fuggedaboudit. ;) Enjoyed the article!

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  4. Thanks for the comment, Sheri. Yes, the newer writers are getting lost amid all the books out there. I've had my problems with that "Adult" label, but I did manage to get it removed from one of my books. From what I understand, one reason sales are down for many writers is because of the glut of books out there. You get lost.

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  6. Everyone in any field needs a support system. However with the ambition to achieve greatness being of a higher level of thought the support system evolves through contacts of that level

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