tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post6411621296639323593..comments2023-05-30T08:29:42.770-04:00Comments on The Erotica Readers & Writers Association Blog: On Planning a BDSM SceneCroco Designshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04417265522875605547noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post-69886191853202928762016-04-20T08:35:14.456-04:002016-04-20T08:35:14.456-04:00"The plan is not in charge, it needs to be re..."The plan is not in charge, it needs to be responsive in the moment, and be real to who these characters are, to what their dynamic is. Sometimes the scene builds to somewhere unexpected. Part of the point of the looseness of the plan is to allow that to happen." <br /><br />I love this observation, because I've seen this happen in my own writing. Characters break out of the paths or roles I've set up for them. I've learned to recognize the sense of frustration that comes from trying to force a story to follow my preconceived plan, and to let it go.Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.com