tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post6991771747905573892..comments2023-05-30T08:29:42.770-04:00Comments on The Erotica Readers & Writers Association Blog: I Have Only Myelf to BlameCroco Designshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04417265522875605547noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post-3620200057807303472014-08-27T16:45:23.023-04:002014-08-27T16:45:23.023-04:00I think that is a true erotic tension... when you ...I think that is a true erotic tension... when you want and don't want at the same time and the tremor you feel when everything is ready for your surrender and make you feel to fall on deaf ears.<br />Yes, I want to read about that kind of seduction, it could be without sex, but not without sensuality.Elisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15275860455671107147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post-68278978395253606332014-08-27T12:25:16.174-04:002014-08-27T12:25:16.174-04:00Exactly! Plausibility is part of it. I'd say I...Exactly! Plausibility is part of it. I'd say I'm not a 'meet a stranger and have sex with them within a few hours' type, but I've done it (back in my long ago misty past). Yet I still have a difficult time believing other people do it. That's why I generally write people with established relationships. Them getting nasty together seems much more plausible to me than two strangers.kathleenbradean@yahoo.comhttp://kathleenbradean.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post-31856303070678568702014-08-27T12:19:46.274-04:002014-08-27T12:19:46.274-04:00thankfully, after I wrote this, I managed to get b...thankfully, after I wrote this, I managed to get butt in seat and write the damned thing.kathleenbradean@yahoo.comhttp://kathleenbradean.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post-33691283438562981072014-08-27T12:18:33.598-04:002014-08-27T12:18:33.598-04:00I find the seduction much more of a turn on than t...I find the seduction much more of a turn on than the act of sex, so "slow burners" like you strike me as much more arousing on the page.kathleenbradean@yahoo.comhttp://kathleenbradean.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post-69646224191367541762014-08-27T11:13:15.300-04:002014-08-27T11:13:15.300-04:00" I can close my eyes and inhale deeply in th..." I can close my eyes and inhale deeply in the bakery without tasting their donuts, after all. It’s movement in the right direction, but thinking that the guy across the way has a great butt and pretty eyes too doesn’t mean you’re going to let him finger you in the glass elevator on the way up to your hotel room. (or maybe it does. I don’t judge)"<br /><br />Surely there are a lot of people ready to jump on who they like and it happens easly. These kind of people don't find resistences or other wall in front of their desires.<br />Other people, as me, need a lot of time and a lot of little things and certain definite signs before to jump on who they like.<br />In this case, how many things wuold you have to write?<br />Elisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15275860455671107147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post-64605314968141920082014-08-27T00:12:39.590-04:002014-08-27T00:12:39.590-04:00Interesting post, Kathleen. Your concentration on ...Interesting post, Kathleen. Your concentration on the process by which possible sex becomes probable sex and then sex actually happens seems parallel to my concern with plausibility. Theoretically, almost any two consenting adults could be erotically attracted to each other, but would the characters in this story feel that way and express it openly? If they say and so what they're thinking, will it look cheesy on the page?Jean Robertahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08805088081675965859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post-38164143763824178752014-08-24T22:55:37.519-04:002014-08-24T22:55:37.519-04:00I agree, it's a curse. Lately I've found t...I agree, it's a curse. Lately I've found that my best stories are the ones I just sit down and write.<br /><br />I love what you say here about the point where sex goes from a possibility to a certainty. And in my view, even if that certainty doesn't pan out, it's still erotica. Erotica is about desire, not sex. The two are sometimes disjoint.Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.com