tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post8636415111897975756..comments2023-05-30T08:29:42.770-04:00Comments on The Erotica Readers & Writers Association Blog: Writing Great SexCroco Designshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04417265522875605547noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post-14506633022493800342015-09-14T23:46:27.017-04:002015-09-14T23:46:27.017-04:00Oh yes! You're right on target, Selena.
In mo...Oh yes! You're right on target, Selena.<br /><br />In most of my sex scenes, at least of the third of the text deals with what is going on in my character's head. What is he or she thinking and feeling? Imagining? Wanting? Fearing? <br /><br />I'd disagree in one area, though. Orgasm is not necessary to have a hot sex scene. And the inevitability of orgasm in erotica sometimes becomes boring. <br /><br />By the way, welcome to the blog! Thanks for a great first post.Lisabet Saraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05162514190572269660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7396437919069310850.post-37486539294177679902015-09-14T15:54:15.015-04:002015-09-14T15:54:15.015-04:00Re: your last point, I just finished a book last n...Re: your last point, I just finished a book last night that had a relatively inexperienced woman who has just shared a delicious meal with the hero who cooked it for her. Now she decides that she'd like to try fellatio...for the first time. Then the description includes how he wraps his fingers in her hair and tells her to relax her throat and guess what? She DOES NOT throw up when he hits the back of her throat!<br /><br />Totally unbelievable, right? I once upchucked a spaghetti dinner on a guy who obviously had no idea what a gag reflex was or how big he was. Sheesh! Luckily that was back in my much younger days, and he was a tool anyway, so we stopped seeing each other soon after that. But I wonder if he learned anything from that. Hopefully he did, and his future girlfriends owe it to me.Fiona McGierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13495707848048468428noreply@blogger.com